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The Glass Mountain And The Sensible Child

…and then one day she realized that her life was not wonderful. That she was miserable. That people were being cruel to her, and when she said something, she was told to be grateful that she had friends that cared about her enough to treat her so cruelly for her own good.

It probably won’t surprise you, my dear, to learn that she got angry.

Yes, indeed, she did. And the person that she got angry with was herself—

No?

But this happens a great deal, you know.

Ah. You are a sensible child, I see.  Well, perhaps she was not so sensible. And it is not so unreasonable, you know. If you get angry at other people, there is often a great deal of yelling and fighting. Our heroine hated yelling, and she cried when she was angry.

(Though I do hear that goes away with menopause—

Hmmm?

Oh. Ask your mother. I am sure that she will be happy to explain it to such a sensible child.)

At any rate, it is a great deal easier to be angry with yourself. There is less yelling. And you do not have any of the excuses that you can invent for other people—that maybe they didn’t know, or had bad childhoods, or were badly frightened by spiders when they were small.

I am afraid you will simply have to trust me on this one.

Well. I could tell you a great many stories that fit inside this one, but it would take a long time. There are stories we tell ourselves, you know, about how lucky we are and how much worse off other people are. There are people dying right now in camps strung with barbed wire, and how can anyone feel sorry for themselves by comparison? At least you’re not dead and everything mostly works and nobody makes you eat maggots on toast.

Yes, it is a great deal like eating your vegetables because children are starving somewhere. Other people’s misery is supposed to be some kind of garnish to improve the taste, I suppose. I was never entirely clear on how that worked.

Seems a bit ghoulish, doesn’t it?

Well.

There were days when our heroine stood on street corners and thought “Someday, I will leave,” and felt nothing at all. And there were days when she curled into a ball on the couch and ached, and there were days she went along with everything because she was so afraid that this was the best it could be and no one else would ever want her again.

Am I talking about her job or her husband?

Well, yes.

When you love something, it has its fingers wrapped around your heart, whatever it may be. You’ll learn that soon, if you haven’t already.

I am afraid that being sensible will not help you much with that.

At any rate. Eventually things move on. All the brave knights ride at the glass mountain until they get to the top or get tired of sliding down the sides and go home to their mothers or lovers or cats.

I would like to tell you that the heroine got fed up and got angry with people who deserved it. It’s a better story that way, certainly. Would you like her to have a silver sword and cut the heads off her enemies?

I would, too. Let’s pretend that’s what happened.

But you cannot cut your own head off with a silver sword—no, you can’t. I see you trying to work out the mechanics. Trust me on this one—oh, fine. But it requires pulleys, all right?

At any rate, you are still left alone, at the end, with the person that you are in the habit of being mad at.

I know, I know.

Perhaps it will please you to know that in time, she got tired of sliding down that glass mountain, too. She stopped thinking of all the times when she should have stood up and said “Enough! No more!” and walked away—from her job, from her lover, from people who claimed to be friends—and getting angry at herself for not standing up.

And she stopped thinking “At least it’s not maggots on toast.”

Instead she thought “That was horrible, and that poor girl didn’t deserve it. Even if it was me.”

And a long time later, when she could hardly see the glass mountain in the distance any more, she thought “Goodness, if I lived through all that, I must be very stubborn and tough as nails to boot.”

And she stopped worrying about all the times she curled up on the couch and cried and started thinking about all the times she got up afterwards and splashed water on her face and went on, because work still had to do be done and art still had to be made and somebody always has to feed the cat and count out the till and turn off the lights at the end of the day.

She thought “At least I always got up again.” And she began to think rather tenderly of her younger self, as someone who was not terribly bright, perhaps, but who kept getting up again, and who had eventually turned her back on glass mountains.

Her silver sword? Well, she hung it up over the doorway. If you’ve got a silver sword, after all, it’s no good if you don’t know where it is so that you can get to it.

She met quite a few people who knew about glass mountains, too. She loved some of them very much, and she was mostly patient with the ones who kept throwing themselves at the sides of their own glass mountains, although not that patient, because some memories still made her tired.

An end? Well, I don’t know the end yet. She hasn’t died, you know. And hardly anyone lives happily ever after, unless they have one of those wires in their brains—on second thought, let’s not talk about that.

Endings.

Yes.

I could make one up, I suppose. We don’t really have a convenient villain to dance in red-hot iron boots….

No. We are not taking nominations.

Let’s have pie. I think pie would be a good end to this story, don’t you?

See, I knew you were a sensible child.

Originally published at Tea with the Squash God. You can comment here or there.


Pie is good.

So is story.

(And the cat just jumped up and sneezed on me, which ruined the contemplative mood.)

As long as it's not mag-pie, eh?

Good story.

I think I love you. This must be read out loud, and reposted.

You and anyone else who wants can repost wherever and however!

Thank you. I am quite certain now that this what my psych has been trying to tell me, only I couldn't really wrap my head around it. I grok this. Thank you so very much!

Edited at 2012-11-28 12:12 am (UTC)

I think this is the best fairy tale I have ever read and I love it more than I can possibly say and I love *you* for writing it.

Thank you.

*said by another girl who walked away from her own glass mountain*

Glass mountains? I think I would have preferred those over the dragons I had.

Then again, after walking away from the dragons, losing the knight who had been at the entrance of the cave waiting, and reminding myself that I had made this journey once before, I can certainly do it again, I find myself agreeing with you.

Pie is an excellent conclusion.

Apple pie with cheddar crust and a bacon top?

This reminds me of Kelly Link's Travels with the Snow Queen in the best possible way. <3

Still making with the glass mountains myself, I guess, though I'm writing stories on some of them with whiteboard markers.

Beautiful work.

Punched in the gut, in a good way, with tears. I've been having a lot of running up the glass mountain days lately, so this is particularly timely.

Marvelous. Gets you right there if you're one of those people with a glass mountain of your own, no matter how far off it is in the distance.

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Edited at 2012-11-28 12:36 am (UTC)

If you hit a glass mountain just right, with the right kind of sledgehammer ...

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At any rate, it is a great deal easier to be angry with yourself. There is less yelling. And you do not have any of the excuses that you can invent for other people—that maybe they didn’t know, or had bad childhoods, or were badly frightened by spiders when they were small.

It hurts because it's so true.

"And she began to think rather tenderly of her younger self, as someone who was not terribly bright, perhaps, but who kept getting up again, and who had eventually turned her back on glass mountains."

This line is so very very real - it hit all those bruised, tender places that still lurk under my breastbone from scrambling up my own glass mountain.

Awesome writing, hits you right in the feels..and all too true for many of us, particularly that "How can I have the right to feel sorry for myself or feel bad about what's happening to me right now when someone else has it so much worse?" bit.

she cried when she was angry. (Though I do hear that goes away with menopause—

Well, no, but you do learn to yell and rant through the tears instead of hiding in a corner with them.

I'm glad this story ended with pie. I will trade you, for the pie, a song.

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