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So. Um. Huh.

Well.

This is not an entry I particularly wanted to write, but since it'd be weird if I didn't--I record so many details of my life, and it'd be pretty obvious eventually if I was leaving it out--it looks like James and I are splitting.

Yeah, kinda sucks.

We're doing a trial seperation first. It's all very amicable and almost desperately congenial, nobody's really at fault, but, well....we had a bunch of good years, we got each other's careers started, and I've got no regrets. Still, we're both obsessive workaholics, and after awhile we just grew apart. We're great partners on the practical stuff, but eventually that's not gonna keep stuff going. So we'll take a few months, get the finances worked out, and I'll find a place of my own and...guess we'll see where life takes us after that. I'm not sure if I can make a living on my own on art and writing, but I'll give it a damn good try, and more than that, one cannot expect from life.

I'm alternating between calm and wrecked, as one might expect. Still, I'm taking it pretty well. The nice thing about the axe falling is that you're not worrying about whether the axe is going to fall.

So...well, there we are.

Funny the way life goes, sometimes. But as Grandma used to say--"This, too, shall pass."


I'm ... well, shocked. But you've gotta do what you gotta do.

Sometimes you can be the best of friends, but not the best of matches for daily life.

Whatever you both decide... I hope for the very best for both of you.

You have my deepest sympathies. E-hugs if you want them, and although you doubtlessly have a ton of friends who'll be there for you, if you ever need an ear, my e-mail is in my profile.

That's sad to hear... I wish you both the best, however it turns out. *hugs*

Oh augh! I'm really sorry to hear that! :(

Sorry to hear it. :( All the best for both of you.

sorry to hear about your breakup. very difficult things to get through.

Now you're finally free to marry me!

I'm using humor to cope, wtf O_o

I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope that everything works out.

*hugs* I'm sorry to hear that. Wishing you both the best.

I'm sorry. Hope everything turns out okay for you guys.

That sucks very much.

I'm sorry you have to go through this, and I hope you end up in the right place, whatever that may be, on the other side of it.

Wow, that sucks. Hope things work out for you the best way they can.

Aw, man. I'm sorry.

At least it's as congenial as it can be. It's so much worse when it's bad.

(And all I can think is, "But she's put in so much work on the yard!")

(And all I can think is, "But she's put in so much work on the yard!")

Strangely enough, that was one of my first thoughts, as well. "Aw, she has to move? But.. the yard? The squirrels!"

Wow. I'm shocked. The way you wrote, you always seemed to compliment each other so well. Still... it does happen.

Good luck with everything.