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So. Um. Huh.

Well.

This is not an entry I particularly wanted to write, but since it'd be weird if I didn't--I record so many details of my life, and it'd be pretty obvious eventually if I was leaving it out--it looks like James and I are splitting.

Yeah, kinda sucks.

We're doing a trial seperation first. It's all very amicable and almost desperately congenial, nobody's really at fault, but, well....we had a bunch of good years, we got each other's careers started, and I've got no regrets. Still, we're both obsessive workaholics, and after awhile we just grew apart. We're great partners on the practical stuff, but eventually that's not gonna keep stuff going. So we'll take a few months, get the finances worked out, and I'll find a place of my own and...guess we'll see where life takes us after that. I'm not sure if I can make a living on my own on art and writing, but I'll give it a damn good try, and more than that, one cannot expect from life.

I'm alternating between calm and wrecked, as one might expect. Still, I'm taking it pretty well. The nice thing about the axe falling is that you're not worrying about whether the axe is going to fall.

So...well, there we are.

Funny the way life goes, sometimes. But as Grandma used to say--"This, too, shall pass."


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(And all I can think is, "But she's put in so much work on the yard!")

Strangely enough, that was one of my first thoughts, as well. "Aw, she has to move? But.. the yard? The squirrels!"

Glad someone else thought along those lines too...

You weren't the only ones. Yards are one of those nice, easy to grasp concepts, I suppose. Still, Ursula has the..."gardening talent" is not the word I'm looking for...perhaps "Gardening blood-thirstyness" or "mania"...I'm sure she'll make another yard beautiful and full of defective wildlife.

Same exact though I had. "You'll have to leave the yard behind!" I'm sorry Ursula. Best of luck to both of you.

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